“…I am all,that I need,I am smart about who I let in to my life…… I have observed a cruel, senseless evil among relationships that tugged at my soul and left me reeling with contempt.

It is a cruel dynamic among intertribal relationships that left me high strung and ready to dismiss a perfect union among female and male species. This has been confined to the concrete jungle of Johannesburg so I do not know if my sisters in other cities of the world can relate.

Men come from rural or peri-urban towns to the city of Jozi to work, armed with vague ideas of what city-life is like but with a cunning disillusioned desire to prove to their counterparts back at home that they will be making it against all odds.